Not At My Expense.
Your power lies in your identity. A working teaching of the N.A.M.E. Platform™ and the A.B.U.S.E. Awareness Grid — how to recognize what's costing you, name it, and reclaim the ground it took.
Read the abstractThe N.A.M.E. Platform was born from a blacked-out BINGO card. Every square filled. Every issue lived. It exists because the woman who built it learned that what you refuse to name will continue to define you — and she decided that was no longer an option. Not at her expense, and not at yours.
When Dr. DeAnna Lynn Nix steps forward to speak, a shift takes place. Her voice carries the weight of a woman who has walked through fire—and refused to be consumed by it.
A visionary speaker, ordained evangelist, retired federal servant, and decorated United States Army veteran, Dr. Nix delivers messages that don't just inspire audiences—they ignite them.
To give people the language and tools to name what has been silently shaping their lives — so that their trauma stops naming them. Through experiential frameworks and training, we help individuals and organizations trace the roots of what has kept them boxed in, call it by name, and step into who they were always meant to be.
A world where no one is defined by the worst thing that ever happened to them — where people stop wearing their pain as an identity, name what tried to break them, and walk freely in the purpose they were created for.
Each is built so an audience leaves with a sentence they didn't have when they walked in.
Your power lies in your identity. A working teaching of the N.A.M.E. Platform™ and the A.B.U.S.E. Awareness Grid — how to recognize what's costing you, name it, and reclaim the ground it took.
Read the abstractBe your authentic self without apology, in every environment. A keynote on identity-first leadership — how to show up the same person in the workplace, and marketplace, and every place without compromising self integrity.
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How to be resilient in every environment. Built on the L.I.G.H.T. Grid — a practical, lived-experience framework for staying lit when the room, the season, or the system tries to put you out.
Read the abstractTake the work off the stage and into your hands — one available now, one on the way.

The book that started it all. Dr. DeAnna's signature framework for naming what's been holding you back and stepping fully into your assignment. Available now.
This is not a book of clinical detachment or distant theory.
It is a close-to-the-bone, graceful, and unashamed invitation to face your “boxes in the attic” and reclaim your narrative.
Inside this life-altering book, you’ll discover how to:
Name your hidden trauma
Learn the experiential vocabulary to call your past wounds by their exact names, so they lose their unspoken authority over your peace.
Inspect the grid
Map out your own experiences using a structured, 25-square framework that traces present behaviors back to their root causes.
Declare “Not At My Expense” (N.A.M.E.)
Establish a permanent barrier against self-destruction, moving from toxic over-functioning and people-pleasing to intentional self-preservation.
Activate the L.I.G.H.T. grid
Transition from surviving to becoming through daily practices rooted in Lifestyle, Investment, Guardrails, Healing, and Transformation.
Return to the “manufacturer’s specs”
Break out of the ancient dismantle strategies trying to turn your light off, and step into the original, mint-condition design you were created for.

A 40-day devotional and workbook companion to walk you through the N.A.M.E. journey one day at a time. Coming Fall 2026.
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