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ORDAINED EVANGELIST · RETIRED FEDERAL CIVIL SERVANT · U.S. ARMY VETERAN

Not At My Expense.
Dominate Without Dying!

The N.A.M.E. Platform was born from a blacked-out BINGO card. Every square filled. Every issue lived. It exists because the woman who built it learned that what you refuse to name will continue to define you — and she decided that was no longer an option. Not at her expense, and not at yours.

Military. Boardroom. Pulpit. One voice that has stood in all three.
Dr. DeAnna Lynn Nix, speaker and founder of the N.A.M.E. Platform
Currently booking · 2026
Founder of the N.A.M.E. Platform™ · Available for keynotes, workshops & ministry events.
Dr. DeAnna Lynn Nix — then and now, U.S. Army veteran and ordained evangelist
About Dr. Nix

A shift takes place when she steps forward.

When Dr. DeAnna Lynn Nix steps forward to speak, a shift takes place. Her voice carries the weight of a woman who has walked through fire—and refused to be consumed by it.

A visionary speaker, ordained evangelist, retired federal servant, and decorated United States Army veteran, Dr. Nix delivers messages that don't just inspire audiences—they ignite them.

The Mission

Empowerment Through Identity.

To give people the language and tools to name what has been silently shaping their lives — so that their trauma stops naming them. Through experiential frameworks and training, we help individuals and organizations trace the roots of what has kept them boxed in, call it by name, and step into who they were always meant to be. 

Dr. DeAnna Lynn Nix in doctoral regalia standing before a peacock backdrop
N.A.M.E. Platform logo — Not At My Expense
The Vision

Walking in Authenticity.

A world where no one is defined by the worst thing that ever happened to them — where people stop wearing their pain as an identity, name what tried to break them, and walk freely in the purpose they were created for.

Signature talks

Three messages I'm bringing to rooms right now.

Each is built so an audience leaves with a sentence they didn't have when they walked in.

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Signature keynote
45 min

Not At My Expense.

Your power lies in your identity. A working teaching of the N.A.M.E. Platform™ and the A.B.U.S.E. Awareness Grid — how to recognize what's costing you, name it, and reclaim the ground it took.

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02
Keynote
45 min

Be 4Real.

Be your authentic self without apology, in every environment. A keynote on identity-first leadership — how to show up the same person in the workplace, and marketplace, and every place without compromising self integrity.

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Dr. DeAnna delivering Keep The Light On keynote 03
Workshop / Keynote
60 min

Keep The Light On.

How to be resilient in every environment. Built on the L.I.G.H.T. Grid — a practical, lived-experience framework for staying lit when the room, the season, or the system tries to put you out.

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TESTIMONIALS

What the room says after.

I've sat through hundreds of professional development sessions. Most of them gave me things I forgot by the time I reached the parking lot. Dr. DeAnna gave me a practical illustration of the power of knowing your identity. I left that room with an entirely different relationship to the word ‘alignment.’ If your organization is serious about building leaders who operate from wholeness, Dr. DeAnna needs to be in your building.
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Senior Director of Talent Development
Federal Contractor Organization
I will never look at a BINGO card the same way again. Dr. DeAnna walked in with her BINGO card and changed my life. She didn't enter the room with the next gimmick — she entered the room with a key to deliverance and understanding that most would never share. She spoke with the authority of someone who has already been through what she's teaching, and our women left with a road map they are still walking out. This was better than a TED Talk or a Sermonette. This was Divinely Profound.
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Pastor and Women's Ministry Director
Mid-Atlantic Region
I didn't know what to call what had happened to me for most of my adult life. Dr. DeAnna stood on that stage and put a name on things I thought only I had experienced. When she said, ‘What you don't name will name you,’ I felt something shift. I walked out and called my sister and said, ‘I finally know what I've been carrying.’ Dr. DeAnna showed me how to keep the light on even in the darkest times. She showed me, by her character, that those who have been victimized can also be resilient.
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Conference Attendee
Community Healing Workshop
While attending a conference, I met this awesome woman of God and we connected as if we were old friends. Listening to her was just the confirmation I needed to accept that God has a bigger plan, purpose and platform for my life. As one door closes many more will open!! Obedience is the key to opening the doors!! Thank you Dr. DeAnna for being uniquely you and allowing God to use you to speak to us. P.S. Thanks for the wristband — it matches my uniform!!!
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COL Monica Johnson-Lawson
United States Army Chaplain
As a little girl in the 90’s, I was blessed to have Evangelist Nix as a second spiritual mother. Her faith was never something she simply spoke about; it was reflected in the way she served others, led with compassion, and extended grace to everyone around her. Today in 2026, the seeds ‘Momma Nix’ planted in my life as a young girl continue to bear fruit! I thank God for the way she transformed her challenges into opportunities to strengthen the faith of those around her, showing us that God can use every season of life for His purpose.
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Kendra Harris
Digital Creator · Autism Advocate
The books

Books & Resources

Take the work off the stage and into your hands — one available now, one on the way.

Not At My Expense — now available in paperback, $14.99
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Not At My Expense: Strategic Alignment For Every Assignment

The book that started it all. Dr. DeAnna's signature framework for naming what's been holding you back and stepping fully into your assignment. Available now.

What’s inside this book

This is not a book of clinical detachment or distant theory.

It is a close-to-the-bone, graceful, and unashamed invitation to face your “boxes in the attic” and reclaim your narrative.

Inside this life-altering book, you’ll discover how to:

  • Name your hidden trauma

    Learn the experiential vocabulary to call your past wounds by their exact names, so they lose their unspoken authority over your peace.

  • Inspect the grid

    Map out your own experiences using a structured, 25-square framework that traces present behaviors back to their root causes.

  • Declare “Not At My Expense” (N.A.M.E.)

    Establish a permanent barrier against self-destruction, moving from toxic over-functioning and people-pleasing to intentional self-preservation.

  • Activate the L.I.G.H.T. grid

    Transition from surviving to becoming through daily practices rooted in Lifestyle, Investment, Guardrails, Healing, and Transformation.

  • Return to the “manufacturer’s specs”

    Break out of the ancient dismantle strategies trying to turn your light off, and step into the original, mint-condition design you were created for.

Keep the Light On — 40 Days of Naming and Reclaiming, coming soon
Coming Fall 2026

Keep the Light On: 40 Days of Naming and Reclaiming

A 40-day devotional and workbook companion to walk you through the N.A.M.E. journey one day at a time. Coming Fall 2026.

Booking

Let's talk about your event.

Tell me about the date, the audience, and what you want them to walk away with. I read every inquiry myself, and I'll be in touch within two business days.

  • Keynotes · 30–60 min
  • Workshops · 90 min – half day
  • In-person worldwide · virtual on request
  • Currently booking 2026
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